I guess it all started when I was about years old. We just had new neighbors move in across the street. At the time I did not care to much about meeting new people but my parents forced me to go over because there was a boy there my age named Luke. Reluctantly I went over and introduced myself and about an hour later we were like best friends. We did everything together played video games, rode bikes, went to the same school, ect.
'Sleepovers' With My 9-Year-Old Daughter - The New York Times
Paul started calling himself Results-Oriented around the time we had our first foursome with a straight-presenting, queer-identified couple. For the most part, we engaged in heterosexual and lesbian activities, but at one point, I let it slip that watching two men together has always been one of my top turn-ons. Our male partner looked up with excitement and climbed on top of Paul. Once he obtained consent, he gave Paul a long and thorough blowjob that finished in climax. That was the first — but not the only — time Paul has engaged in sexual activity with a man.
S hifra and I had crossed paths our entire lives, a charm or consequence of growing up in Winnipeg — all Jews seem to know each other. Our babas are great old friends; our mothers see each other at the grocery store every week. Everything with us seemed to click.
When I was 12 years old I had a sleepover I will never forget. Me and my friends Alex and Mitchell were all sleeping over at Alex's house. We had all just woken up and Alex's mom had left us a note in the kitchen "hope you all slept well. I'm out for the day and won't be back until about 4PM this afternoon.