Of course, even if you are intrigued, chances are you're not going to run out and buy a toy for booty play without knowing what you're getting yourself into. So we asked experts what the hell these are for, why some people think they're ahhhmazing, and how to use one. Similar to your c-spot and G-spot, there are tons of ultra-sensitive nerve endings in your back door, says relationship coach Cory Honickman, PsyD. That means stimulating it can bring you of a ton of sexual pleasure whether you're playing with yourself or with a partner. And, depending on how the plug is used, the female skene glands also known as the female prostate may be stimulated, which can be a pleasant surprise, she says.
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Attention, attention! If any "trend" has dominated the bedroom or at least, the bedroom conversation over the past couple of years, it's showing the butt some love. But anal sex is nothing if not intimidating—which is where butt plugs come into play literally. The answer is to engage in what Sinclair and other sexperts call "anal training," where you test the waters with a finger or toy and work your way up to bigger girths including a real live penis or strap-on. This crucial method helps the anal muscles acclimate to penetration, lowering your risk of tearing and pain. Another crucial tip for reducing your risk: Use more lube than you even think you need—just never silicone lube for silicone toys, which can break down the material. Of course, it's also worth noting that even if anal sex isn't your end ha goal, butt plugs can bring a lot of pleasure and excitement to your sex life.
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While sitting at work the day following Ashley's naked dinner debut you receive a phone call from her school. You swallow hard as the principal asked you to come in to discuss "your daughter's recent behavior. He had you fire up your anonymous email account once again and send Ashley an order to wear a butt plug to school. This morning you watched Ashley out of the corner of your eye as she got dressed by the door before leaving for school.
And she says the best way to accomplish this is with butt plugs. Sometimes they're used to prep the body for the whole enchilada aka anal sex. But their main purpose is to go in and stay in. She explains: the anal and vaginal canals sit very close together. Butt plugs aren't just good when combined with vaginal penetration.