Massage the anus

But from a standpoint of pleasure and sexual response, sexual anatomy is about far more than genitals and is far less about reproductive organs. Ultimately, all the parts and systems of the body are potential sexual organs in the context of pleasure. Our most important sexual organs when it comes to pleasure are not only usually different than we think, but operate far less independently than we assume or have been told. We're not saying the genitals aren't important or a big deal with sexual pleasure and experience: for most people, most of the time, they are. That's hardly surprising. There are a lot of densely packed nerve endings in our genitals, and if and when we stimulate them ourselves, wantedly have them stimulated by others, or rub two sets together, it does tend to often result in a sexual kapowie.

Prostate massage or anal pleasure during solo and shared play can be pleasurable for anyone, regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation. This is because the anus is an area of our bodies that's packed with nerve endings and is highly receptive to touch. Anal stimulation has the potential to feel great for anyone with a butthole, but for men and people with a prostate, anal exploration through prostate massage and prostate milking can be especially pleasurable. Yes, it does also feel good for women and vagina-havers. The prostate sometimes called the P-spot or "the male G-spot" is a gland within the sexual organs of a man or someone with a penis. Yep, a prostate orgasm is a real thing. Much like the G-spot in women and people who have vulvas, the P-spot can be a little tricky to find, but once you do, the benefits are out of this world.

Perineal massage may help you avoid pain and tears to your perineum during childbirth. One of the many mysteries around childbirth is: How will I push something the size of a small watermelon out of my body without breaking into two? The short answer is, your body can do miraculous things. One way or another, you will deliver that beautiful baby of yours.

So far, a lot of the conversation around sexual assault and misconduct has centered on high-profile figures — primarily those in the entertainment industry and politics. But in reality, the problem runs far deeper than that and affects many people across almost every profession. The most recent example of this surfaced in an article from BuzzFeed over the weekend, which notes that nearly women have reported sexual assaults as clients at Massage Envy — the first and largest chain of massage franchises in the United States. The most important part of a massage is the conversation you have with your therapist before the treatment starts.