Cunnilingus has an undeserved reputation as one of the trickiest sexual acts to perform well. She Comes First easily ranks in my personal top five. Most sex books are too vague to actually be useful, but Kerner covers every aspect of cunnilingus in detail, and gives tons of specific techniques. Kerner had a personal stake in honing his oral sex technique, too—he bravely admits in the opening chapter that his struggles with premature ejaculation motivated him to find other ways of pleasing his partners. Others dislike being the center of attention, or find themselves unable to relax when receiving.
The Best Oral Sex Positions for Women
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Oral sex can be tricky: some men may think they have all the right moves, when in fact they're doing it all wrong. While most research indicates that clitoral stimulation is key for women to reach orgasm, that doesn't mean that men should only spend a few seconds down there and expect their partners to be satisfied. Making a woman come takes time and effort, and the only thing worse than being bad at oral sex is not trying to please your partner at all. To figure out some of the most common mistakes men make during oral sex, we spoke to six different women to get their takes. That said, knowledge is power, and being familiar with the female anatomy will only aid your cause.
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A guide to rimming? And as a trickle-down effect, other types of anal play are getting hyped up, too. In the heterosexual, men having sex with women crowd, anyway. Among women having sex with women and men having sex with men, all kinds of anal play has been on the table for quite some time. The general technique is licking.
Feeling a little stuck in your current sex routine, or just want to explore some new sensations? Take your pick, and give a few of these best sex positions a whirl — but don't be afraid to experiment even further to figure out exactly what works for you and your partner. The best part? They're all expert-approved.